Archive for the ‘Self-esteem’ Category

Insecure Teen? (2012-1-24)

Whether your teen tells you or not, they have a lot of insecurities. A lot. And to be honest, why shouldn’t they. Teens have tons of questions in their head about tons of things. They don’t always feel like they can ask or should ask you all of their questions, but whether or not they [...]

How Do I Love My Teen? (2009-7-23)

Every parent has a different way of showing love to their teen.  There’s the saying, “Do you think I would provide for the roof over your head if I didn’t love you?” This is a bit like the excuse your spouse used to explain why they forgot your birthday or why there were no roses on [...]

5 Tips to Help your Teen make Friends (2009-7-21)

The prom king and queen are popular and everyone wants to be their friend, but what happens when making friends is not that easy?  What if you are shy like the celebrities Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Robert Dinero or even Jim Carey who were all shy when they were kids?  Some of them are still shy.  [...]

Praising your Teen (2009-7-1)

Don’t overdo the praise and by all means do not be insincere about it, but praise for great achievements cause a smile in your teen that is hard for them to hide. They crave it. It’s like water, they need it to grow.

5 Tips to help your Teen Figure Out who they are (2009-6-26)

Michael Jackson’s death stunned the world. Keith Richards, Mick Jagger and Quincy Jones have outlived Michael Jackson.  People who some might say have lived a much harder adult life.  All the money in the world and he lived to be a measly fifty years old.  You should start living at this age.   It certainly says [...]

Family Service and Teen Development (2009-6-25)

Yesterday the 2009 Conference for Volunteer and Service ended.  They discussed the power of volunteerism for our communities and of course the energized feeling that each person gets from volunteering.  Volunteering is essentially the key to America’s future success.  I am going to propose that it can do even more especially when a family volunteers [...]

Failure an Opportunity for Teens (2009-6-23)

“What are your grades like?” She blurted out, “Bad.” And then she just started tearing up and the tears just kept rolling down her face.  She literally did not speak one more word throughout the remainder of our time together.  She just kept wiping away tears.  She’d failed geometry and it was eating her up. [...]