Be Body Positive Day!
August 1, 2010 is Be Body Positive Day. It’s the first of annual celebrations of the human body, your body. The founders hope to create an opportunity for people to take the day to do something amazing with their bodies like exercise, cooking healthy food or dancing. The goal is to honor your body in whatever form or shape it might be in.
Eating Disorders are on the rise among women, men, and people of color. The old stereotypes of who had eating disorders no longer apply and this has caused a generation of self conscious teens to levels that have not been previous seen. It is normal for sometime in the tweens for body comparisons to occur. Tweens compare their bodies to their peers and decide that what they have must not be as good. They are too thin, too fat, too booby, too hippy or too muscular. These toos give way to more negative thoughts as there is some rejection from a love interest or comments from others around them on their being too thin, too fat, too booby, hippy or muscular. The negative recording can create a desperation that can begin with a simple diet and progress to a full blown body image and/or eating disorder.
Restricting junk food, then having guilt if it is eaten is a red flag. This should prompt parents to bring their teen to their pediatrician’s office for a weight check. Other variations in diet like vegetarianism or restriction of fats like olive oil and salad dressing can change the body causing complication like fractures, missed periods, slow heart rates, slow breathing, difficulty concentrating, sleep trouble and difficulty regulating body temperature.
It takes a lot of work to counter the negative thoughts of your teen’s body and Be Positive Body Day my just be the first step in trying to counter that message. Because the truth is no matter how beautiful, how thin, or how rich a person becomes without accepting yourself for who you are, you cannot be beautiful enough, thin enough or rich enough to make yourself happy.
Try This: Try making a positive statement about each body part as in I am grateful for my legs that allow me the freedom to step out of my house, walk down the street and run away from negative things. I am grateful for my belly that is able to digest food of all types and doesn’t need tubes in or out to allow me to take in calories or get rid of my waste. These body parts work and I am grateful for that. Building on this as a counter to each negative thought can help your teen develop acceptance and gratitude.
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